Great! You got the girl, now what? Sure; you followed all the great advice on how to pick up a woman, you worked up your courage, you faced rejection, you’ve learned from your mistakes and finally here you are. She invites you over for a late night drink at her place/ you invite her over for tea and cookies at your place. You don’t want tea and cookies and neither does she.

She’s standing in front of you, there’s a long pause, perhaps you’re smarter than you look and you give her a sweet kiss. The stage is set…you should??

A caress is a very powerful tool. Done correctly and with persistence, it can totally alter a person’s mental state and put them, literally, into a hypnotic trance. You can drive a woman wild and give her an experience that she will not soon forget. And this is a good thing because as any good salesman will tell you, the best customers are repeat customers, and of course we can’t forget about referrals.

Before you begin, I want you to imagine that you are virtuoso musician, the best there has ever been. Now imagine that the beautiful woman standing before you is the most sensitive and expressive musical instrument ever (I prefer harp or theremin). Now begin to play it/her. Begin slowly, testing out your new found form of expression. A light caress along the back, a slightly more aggressive one on the thigh.

As you do this, listen for the music that you are beginning to make; listen to the sighs, the little moans, the deep or quick breaths. Keep an eye out for the goose bumps along the skin, more indication that you are becoming one with your instrument. Become a biofeedback machine so that you begin to repeat the things that cause the most effect on your lover/instrument. If she sighs when you caress her inner thigh then caress it again, remember that sound and combine it with another sound or response that you got from another place on her body.

Do this until there is no separation between you and your instrument, or until you drive each other mad with passion. Remember that you can caress with your lips and that a kiss is just a different form of caress. Remember to be as empathic as possible, and finally realize that if you can do this little trick, you shall have plenty of referrals.